Kissing has always been one of my turn-ons as a part of foreplay. Nowadays, what’s a woman to do? Maybe I can use this time as a way to expand my horizons and branch out a little. How can you turn me on without kissing or putting your fingers in me? I just don’t enjoy that at all. Let me know. Write the vision and make it plain. Here’s a few details: Black woman, mid 30s, curvy and thick, 38 DDs.