Forgive me for writing this while I take a bubble bath and drink my wine.First and foremost, I want to change no ones situation. What I Want is someone real. Someone who realizes I have a life but they do too! I can't just run away in the drop of a dime. I want a friendship with benefits. If I want to visit you or hang out with you and explore you sexually, that's allowed.If Iwant to meet up for a drink and talk about life. That's allowed. Ineed a friendship before I just jump into bed with you and explore each other sexually. Why? It's a turn on to know I can be friends with you, fuck you, go our separate ways and still be cool. I'm 33. I can go for the young guy or the dad guy.If you catch my eye, you catch my.Prefer you be under 50. I'm a size 9 jeans (girl got hips) large top (the girls are covered and not exposed). I'm attractive, funny, outgoing. Your picture get mine.